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In caregiving, being able to communicate well is super important. It’s not just about talking; it’s about making sure that what you say is understood by the person you’re talking to. Whether it’s speaking with clients, their families, or other people involved, clear communication helps everything run smoothly. 

Effective communication, whether verbal or nonverbal, occurs when the sender’s intended meaning and the receiver’s perceived meaning are the same. 

Carers need exceptional communication skills, as communicating information with clients, families, and stakeholders improves service delivery. 

This article will teach you the skills you need to be a great communicator so you can provide the best care possible for those you care for.

 

Verbal Communication

Successful verbal communication occurs when an individual uses a combination of words or writing in order to pass on information to a specific recipient. Sign language and braille are considered forms of verbal communication. In case you are wondering why braille is considered a form of verbal communication, here’s why. Braille operates just like printed text, as a code that reproduces the sounds, phonetics, and semantics of a language. Hence, it is a form of verbal communication.

Braille is a writing system designed for the visually impaired. It uses raised dots, designed for touch by human fingers, to express the letters of the alphabet and, hence, communicate in written form. 

 

Non-verbal Communication

Successful non-verbal communication occurs when an individual does not use words and still successfully passes on information to a specific recipient.

There are several categories of non-verbal communication, such as:

• Facial expressions
• Head movements
• Hand and arm gestures
• Physical space
• Touching 
• Eye contact, and 
• Physical postures

Even a person’s emotions or how they dress can influence the communication process. In fact, about 90% of our communication is nonverbal. Carers need to be aware of their clients’ nonverbal language, as this is a form of communication. 

 

Understanding Communication Styles: Aggressive, Passive, and Assertive Approaches

 

Communication comes in different styles, and understanding them is key to effective interaction. Some people might communicate aggressively, which can be forceful and intimidating, while others might be passive, avoiding conflict and failing to express their needs. In between lies assertive communication, where individuals express themselves confidently and respectfully, advocating for their rights while considering the needs of others. This unit will explore these communication styles, helping caregivers develop the skills needed to communicate effectively in various situations, ultimately enhancing the quality of care they provide.

 

Aggressive Communication

Aggressive communication may be physical, non-verbal, or verbal and can be used to humiliate or demean another person with, for example, profanity or blaming. 

 

Why Do People Communicate Aggressively

• They anticipate being attacked and overreact aggressively
• They are provoked and react spontaneously
• They are initially non-assertive. Their anger builds until they explode
• They have been conditioned to use aggressive behavior as a way of getting what they want or as a defense mechanism. 
• They never learned the skills of assertive communication. 

 

Consequences of Aggressive Communication

• Aggressive communicators get their way but often alienate others
• They are often lonely and feel rejected
• They receive little respect from others
• They may develop high blood pressure, ulcers, and even a heart attack

 

Passive Communication 

The word passive in this context refers to “not resisting.” A verbally passive communicator keeps quiet and may withhold feedback, making communication more difficult. 

 

Why Do People Communicate Passively

• They believe they have no rights
• They fear negative consequences
• They don’t know how to communicate their needs
• They were always socialized to be compliant and accepting

 

Consequences of Passive Communication

• They avoid conflict but often appease others 
• They lose self-esteem
• They develop a growing sense of anger and hurt
• They may develop headaches, ulcers, backaches, and other symptoms

 

Assertive Communication 

Assertiveness is the ability to say what you want to say but still respect the rights of others. You are not a doormat or bully. When you are assertive, you are honest about your opinions and feelings. At the same time, you try to criticize or put others down. As a carer, you should strive to use assertive communication at all times. 

 

Why Communicate Assertively?

• It is necessary for yourself and others
• It recognizes your needs as well as those of others
• It is constructive, honest, open, and direct communication

 

Attitudes and Communication: How Our Outlook Shapes Communication

Our attitudes play a big role in how we communicate with others. They’re like the feelings we have about ourselves, and they can show in how we talk to people. If we feel good about ourselves, we might seem confident when we speak. But if we need more clarification on ourselves, others might pick up on that, too. Sometimes, though, being too sure of ourselves can come across as fake or pushy, which can make others feel uncomfortable. In this unit, we’ll explore how our attitudes affect our communication and learn how to strike the right balance to ensure our messages come across clearly and respectfully.

• If we have an unfavorable self-attitude, the receiver may notice our uneasiness.
• If we have a favorable self-attitude, the receiver may notice our self-confidence.
• When favorable self-attitude is too strong, receivers can sense falsehood or obnoxiousness. This can be overbearing for the receiver and result in a defensive or hostile reaction. 
• Attitude toward the receiver and the receiver’s attitude toward the sender influence communication. Our messages are different when we communicate the same content to someone we like than to someone we dislike. We also structure our messages differently when talking to someone in a higher position than ours, in the same position, or in a lower position, regardless of whether we like them or not. 
• It is important to maintain a positive and professional attitude with your clients despite your attitude and emotions and your clients.

 

Barriers to Communication

Poor listening skills contribute to poor communication. Listening involves not just hearing the message but the ability to understand, evaluate, and respond. As a carer, you need to be an active listener. 

 

Steps to Improving Your Listening Skills

Improving your listening skills is super important, especially in caregiving. It’s not just about hearing what someone says; it’s about really understanding them. Good listening helps build trust and shows that you care about what the other person has to say. In this unit, we’ll talk about some simple steps you can take to become a better listener. Whether you’re talking to clients, their families, or other caregivers, these skills will help you connect better and provide the best care possible.

• Be quiet: Pay attention to what the other person has to say (or is saying)
• Stop all other activities: Focus on the speaker.
• Look and sound interested: Listen for feelings.
• Do not interrupt the speaker: Let the speaker finish even if it takes a long time. 
• Do not try to think of a response while the person is still speaking
• Refrain from finishing sentences that the speaker begins. Clarify what the speaker is saying. 

 

Here are some of the things to avoid:

• Avoid giving advice, making a judgment, and focusing on yourself
• Avoid giving false reassurance about your client’s physical or emotional condition
• Avoid discussing your problems and concerns
• Avoid topics that are controversial, such as religion and politics
• Avoid using clichés or platitudes

In conclusion, understanding how to talk and listen well is really important in caregiving. Throughout this article, we’ve learned about different ways to communicate, like using words and body language. We’ve also looked at different styles of communication, like being too forceful or not saying much at all. By learning how our attitudes affect how we talk and practicing good listening skills, caregivers can connect better with the people they care for. Avoiding things that get in the way of good communication and making sure everyone feels respected and heard is key. When caregivers get communication right, they make sure everyone feels safe and supported.

 

Ready to take your caregiving skills to the next level? Enroll in communication training courses like the Care Certificate and Manual Handling today. These courses provide comprehensive training to deepen your understanding of caregiving principles and improve your practical skills.